From Seed to Bloom
How I Guide Transformation
I See the Pattern You're In
Within minutes of our first session, I can usually identify the core pattern that's keeping you stuck. I see what you can't see from inside your own experience. Then I organize that overwhelming chaos into clear frameworks so you understand:
You're not broken. You're transforming.
This is sacred work, but it's not passive. I don't just witness your process—I actively guide you through it. I bring three essential gifts to every session:
Three Gifts I Bring to This Work
1. Pattern Recognition (The Power of Seeing What's Hidden)
Your life isn't random chaos—it's an organized pattern you can't see from inside the experience. I see these patterns immediately:
• Which stage of ego death or transformation you're in
• Why strategies that used to work suddenly stopped working
• What your external circumstances are trying to show you
• What's trying to be born through the breakdown
When you're drowning in overwhelm, I hand you a map. When everything feels meaningless, I show you the meaning. This isn't about imposing my interpretation—it's about helping you see the pattern that's been there all along.
2. Loving Correction (Truth That Serves Your Vitality)
I won't just hold space and nod sympathetically. I see exactly what's blocking your vitality, and I'll lovingly call it out:
• When you're using spiritual concepts to bypass real feelings
• When your "self-care" is actually avoidance
• When you're making someone else responsible for your healing
• When fear is masquerading as intuition
This isn't harsh criticism—it's compassionate truth-telling. I can be direct because I can see the vibrant, alive version of you waiting on the other side of what's currently blocking you.
3. Clear Frameworks (Making Sense of the Chaos)
I bridge ancient wisdom and modern psychology to give you frameworks that organize overwhelming experiences into understandable stages:
• The predictable stages of ego death and what to expect at each one
• How to read your external world as a mirror of your internal state
• The difference between healthy detachment and spiritual bypassing
• Why your relationships trigger exactly what needs healing
You don't need more confusion. You need clear maps that help you trust the process you're in.
Who This Work Serves
This work isn't for everyone.
It requires honesty, courage, and willingness to hear the truth about what's not serving you. If you're looking for someone to just affirm and validate without challenge, I'm not your person.
This work is for you if:
• You're experiencing spiritual awakening or identity dissolution
• Old coping strategies suddenly stopped working and you don't know why
• You're willing to see your external world as a mirror of your internal landscape
• You want both psychological insight AND spiritual wisdom
• You're ready to do the work, not just talk about doing the work
• You can hold space for truth even when it's uncomfortable
How We Work Together
Sessions are 50 minutes and conducted via secure video conferencing site.
We typically meet weekly or bi-weekly, depending on where you are in your process. Some people work with me intensively during active transformation. Others check in monthly once they've found their footing.
Every session, I bring my full presence and gifts. I ask direct questions. I name what I see. I offer practical tools and spiritual wisdom. I hold space for your transformation while actively guiding you through it.
"You don't need fixing. You need someone who can see the pattern you're in and help you organize the chaos into meaning."
From Seed to Bloom
The ego death process isn't linear, but there are recognizable patterns:
The Cracking (Initial Awakening)
Something shifts. The old ways of being suddenly feel wrong. You can't un-see what you've seen.
The Dissolution (Breaking Down)
Old identities, beliefs, and attachments fall away. This is the most disorienting phase—everything you thought you knew is in question.
The Void (The Unknown)
You're between worlds. The old self is gone but the new hasn't fully emerged. This requires deep trust.
The Emergence (New Growth)
Something new begins to take form. You start to recognize yourself again, but different—more authentic, more alive.
The Blooming (Embodied Integration)
You live from the transformation. This isn't a destination—it's an ongoing practice of becoming.
Ready to Begin?
If you've read this far and feel a yes, trust that knowing. Your instant recognition is your wisest guide.
What to Expect
Session Format: All Soul Bloom Coaching sessions are conducted virtually, allowing you to engage in this transformative work from the comfort and privacy of your own sacred space.
Session Length: Each session is 50 minutes, providing ample time to go deep while honoring the natural rhythm of meaningful exploration and integration.
Frequency: The frequency of our sessions is entirely determined by you and your unique needs. Some clients find weekly sessions supportive during times of intense transformation, while others prefer bi-weekly or monthly meetings to allow space for integration between sessions.
The Experience: Each session is tailored to where you are in your "seed to bloom" journey. We may focus on building practical skills like mindfulness and emotional processing, explore existential questions about purpose and meaning, work with triggers as mirrors for growth, or support you through ego death and rebirth processes.
Your Role: You are the expert on your own experience. My role is to guide, support, see patterns you can't see from inside them, and offer tools while you remain the author of your transformation. Come as you are—whether you're in a season of planting seeds, tending growth, or ready to bloom.
Sacred Container: Every session is held as sacred space where you can explore, question, feel, and transform without judgment. This work honors both your human experience and your soul's journey.
This Is Coaching, Not Therapy
Soul Bloom Coaching is life coaching focused on spiritual growth and conscious transformation. While I'm a licensed clinical psychologist, I'm not practicing psychotherapy in this work—I'm coaching.
Therapy treats mental health conditions and symptoms. It's medical treatment with clinical diagnoses.
Coaching supports personal growth, spiritual development, and life transformation. It's forward-focused on your evolution.
If you're experiencing significant mental health symptoms or need treatment for anxiety, depression, or trauma, I can provide referrals to appropriate therapeutic resources. This coaching work is for people who are fundamentally stable but navigating profound spiritual transformation.
The Sacred Promise
Every ending contains the seeds of a new beginning. Every death—even ego death—is preparation for rebirth. Every pattern that no longer serves is making space for something more aligned and authentic.
If your soul is calling you toward transformation, I'm here to serve as your guide and companion through this sacred passage. Together, we'll tend the soil of your being so you can heal what's wounded, grow into your truth, and glow with the radiance of who you really are.
Whether you're walking this path alone or with a partner, the invitation is the same: to remember that you are not separate from the world around you, but an active, creative participant in the grand dance of existence.
Ready to Begin?
If this approach resonates with you, let's explore working together.